I'm not sure if I should be affected, or if I should feel bad if I'm not at all affected. But to me, this should have a bad effect on the person who actually did it more.
In case anyone does not understand what this post is all about, allow me to do some explanation. Don's ex wife posted some of our group photos from school events, and commented on one of them, saying, "Curious about who these are? It's my ex husband and his little lover"
I must say I was rather entertained. Not to mention the fact that those photos were taken way before I even got close to him, there was 2 other females who was in every photo she posted. xD I couldnt believe that she was that desperately in denial. But on the other hand, maybe doing so makes her feel better.
Moving on to her comment. Quoted 'ex husband'. Ex means the past tense 'was', means someone need to do some moving on here. Yet, she seems to be 'concerned', if I can say, since she posted the pictures. I was really tempted to reply her comment with something like, 'Thanks for your concern. I hope you find someone soon too.' Just MAYBE she has good intention. =)
Honestly, I have been trying to be understanding to her situation. It's really hard for anyone to go through a divorce. I left my husband with literally nothing, and the only place was my mom's. It was really tough, but I must say, I became happier with who I was then. My life got better, even though I had nothing in my pocket, and struggled to keep myself alive.
So I do understand how stressful it can be. But what I do not understand is why she doesnt communicate at all with her ex husband. What exactly does she want out of the divorce? What exactly is she having problems with? Well, even if she doesnt want to talk about anything, the least she could do was to stop making our people lives miserable with her, I suppose?
She makes me feel that she has a mountain of problems which she doesnt care to share with her ex, and yet make everyone's life difficult, including hers.
Yet, she continues talking bad to his family about all the bad things he had done. All which not a single word was spoken to he himself. (Not to mention that she never say a single word of her own fault, and even insist that she Is Not at fault at all. I kinda figured she might be in quite a denial.) I cannot seem to understand why she is not trying to make her life better, instead of drowning herself with the bad things that her ex or other people did to her, so she can continue to believe that she was never at fault in this entire relationship.
-=For it is useless to talk reason with someone who chose to barrier oneself in one's own world.=-
Updates: The photos were taken down shortly after, but only one of the status posted remained. (Since it caused discomfort to other people than ourselves.) Just like the leopard that cant change its spot, she posted yet another on Monday. Honestly, I simply cant be bothered by it anymore. =D